A woman’s love is kind and compassionate, patient and nurturing, generous and sweet and unconditional. A woman would do anything for the man she loves no matter how bad the man treats her. Even when her friends tell her that her man is of no good, she will stand by her man. A woman’s love stands the test of time, logic and all circumstance. And you would want your man to love you the same way you do. Let me tell you the truth, that ain’t gonna happen! A man’s love is different. It is much simpler, direct and a little bit harder to come by.


Women want their men to call them every minute and give them an update on how much they love them every 30 minutes. A man will not sit down cuddling you every minute, spoil you and nurse you back to health (I still do that for my woman if she’s sick!). A man’s love is just different from the love that a woman can give and wants from her man.

If you can recognize how a man loves his woman, you might be able to find out that special man. How do you know when a man loves you? He would simply do these three things.


If your man loves you, he is willing to tell everybody he knows that you are his lady. A man who has placed you in the most special part of his heart, the man who truly has feelings for you, will let everybody he knows in his life how important you are to him.

If he introduces you as a friend or by your name and nothing else dear to him, you are just a friend. So if you have been dating a guy and you don’t know anything about him, his family and friends, his job or business or anything he does, or he doesn’t take you out on any function or date, the you are not in his plans. He doesn’t see you in his future plans. But the moment he does all these things, then you know he has you in his future plans and that you mean a lot to him.

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When a man truly loves you, he will provide for your needs without any condition attached. These days, women have become independent but a man is trained to provide for those he loves all through his life. He a man fails to do this; he will see himself as not being man enough.  This is the reason why men who cannot efficiently provide for themselves avoid being in a relationship. Now I am talking about being financially able. Meanwhile, confident men go after women even when they are broke and tell lies about their situation. Some even borrow their friend’s clothes, houses and cars to impress these ladies. Ladies, you need to avoid these types of men, if you really want to settle down.

A man who really loves you will give money to make your hair, buy new clothes, buy you make up kits and all your toiletries with no qualms. He would even give you money when you’re not asking for it. Some men would want to give you money and things you ask for, so that you would offer them sex in return. If you are the demanding type, he might not take you serious. Some men don’t like giving women money because they are not confident that you would want to marry them. Some women would even dump their men after they must have bought them the world. What goes around comes around.

But this does not involve only money. A man even when he is broke, we go all out to make sure that you don’t lack or even experience any hardship by sacrificing his last time or valuable time to ensure that you are okay, if you know what I mean. If you really want a good man to spend the rest of his life, find that man who would do things for you unconditionally.

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When a man truly loves you, anybody who says, does, suggests, or even thinks about doing something offensive or insulting to you stands the risk of being wiped out from this world by your man. Your man will destroy anything and everything in his path to make sure that whoever disrespected you, pays for it. A man will provide protection and leadership for his family because he knows a real man is a protector. There is no real man living who will not protect what belongs to him. It’s all about respect. Protection is not about being violent or using physical force against someone. A man who truly cares about or loves you can and will protect you in other ways, whether it is by offering you advice or stepping up to perform a task that he thinks is too dangerous for you to do.


There you have it. If your man does not do these three listed things for you, know that he doesn’t love you. And it is important that you stop giving a man your own definition of love and recognize that men love differently. Again, if you have a man who does these things I listed above, for you, trust me, he really loves you.

Next I will be talking about the three things every man needs from his lady.



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