I keep wondering if true love exists. Religion have given us a confused outlook at what love is all about. Love to me has become a selfish interest amongst men.
I have a very good friend who is married now with a kid. They got married in 2010 and they met way back in 2003/2004. Both risked long distances to be with each other from time to time. I once escorted my friend to a ceremony, his wife’s family had then, the burial of her late dad. We had to travel to a town in Imo State from Port-Harcourt in Rivers State.
This couple, are an example of what true love is. Most ladies today, leave young who haven’t made it life, whom they are dating to look for wealthy sugar daddy’s or well to do young men to get married to. They abandon their true love due to lack of patience and plunge themselves into regret. Not so for my friends wife. She supported him. She waited for him for 6 long years and today, they are married, with a lovely and the most handsome baby boy in the world.
I just keep wondering why a lot of young women today, would seek to destroy their lives because of money. I had a heartbreak some few years back. This young lady, left me to get married to another man, because I wasn’t ready to get married then. She was even double dating me and her hubby. She said she loved me but had to leave me, because I couldn’t give her what she wanted, marriage. Not that I didn’t want to but I couldn’t at the time. Sincerely speaking, she was the only woman I had truly loved. I am not that experienced with women though. And I don’t patronize them. I love keeping to myself. Their “shakara” is always too much if you know what I mean.
I have met some few women though. Some are good but very courteous and some are so impatient and really don’t know what they want. I don’t like double dating and I’m confused on who to choose. Even the one’s I like don’t want to see me as yet and I don’t know why. Well, God will choose the best woman for me. I know she is out there.
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