The Reasons Younger Women Date Much Older Men.

Many women are attracted to much older men. Men who are 15 or even 20 years older can appear more confident, more stable, and even sexier than their younger counterparts. An older date may have interesting stories to tell about his life, and he can expose you to a new world with exciting adventures. Older guys can also seem more stable, and many older men are looking to marry.

1. He’s Mature.

An older man will have been able to spend more time establishing his career. When a younger woman calls her date mature, she’s not just referring to his age. An older man has a better sense of himself. He’s well established in his career and his life. He doesn’t engage in late-night drinking binges with his friends. Instead, a much older man has reached a more settled point of his life. He doesn’t want to pick up a variety of women; instead, he is often looking to establish a serious relationship with just one woman.

2. His Experience Counts.

When it comes to sex, an older male is
perceived as knowing his way around the
bedroom. He’s had to time to perfect his
technique, and he can show his younger lover a good sexual time. With an older man, women don’t expect any awkward moments in the dark. They expect the guy to know exactly what he is doing and to take the time to meet their needs.

3. Ready for Commitment

Instead of spending late night at a bar, an older guy may be happier staying home with you and enjoying some time to relax. Many older guys have already had time to experiment and play the field. Now, they are looking to settle down and commit to a long-term relationship or even to marriage. At this point in his life, he knows that he doesn’t want to be alone, and he knows the type of woman who will make him happy. If they have not already had children with previous spouses, older men may wish to immediately marry and start a new family, Women who are ready to marry and have children find that much older men may be the perfect fit for them.

4. Better at Communicating.

Women are drawn to older men because they are better communicators. Men with an age advantage of 15 years or more have already been through previous relationships. They have learned from their mistakes. They will try not to repeat these actions as they work on a new relationship. Older guys may dwell less on jealousy issues and instead focus on communicating clearly with you so that there will be no misunderstandings. He will be ready to work at making this relationship succeed.

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I have had it up to here (my neck) and I can’t take it any longer! I just wish God (if he exists) didn’t create me a black man and least of all, a Nigerian! Damn it, I hate being Nigerian. We are so unorganized in everything we do in this God forsaken country! We do things they way we like and accuse those who monitor us as being wicked and malicious towards our welfare. What bites me though is that, Nigerians allow people in authority and public offices to exploit them. What is worse off is that, they allow mediocre’s to rule them.

Take for example, President Goodluck Jonathan. Just listen to him talk and you will understand what I mean. And they say this man was a lecturer. How come? He doesn’t strike me as one. And if this is true then I am sorry for all Nigerian students in our universities, because, this man can’t inspire me to excel in anything and to any level. No wonder this country is so backward. Is it his wife, Patience Jonathan? That fat woman ought to live in a pigsty and not in Aso Rock, the presidential villa.

In lagos, the state government, allows it worker’s to exploit lagosians when they create laws that are unlawful and go against the Nigerian constitution, laws that allow them to collect taxes that they do not have a right to collect, such as television and radio taxes. How can you be paying VAT on your cable TV subscription and the state government wants you to pay N500 tax? Lagosians are even more stupid than I thought. They keep quiet over such things and allow fashola’s government to exploit them. Lagos has a poor electricity power supply and rather than build state owned power plants, to improve the power supply, the government imposes strict tax laws on the people. Let’s say the truth, fashola has tried in the building of infrastructure in lagos than his predecessor and Awolowo impersonator, Tinubu, ever did but the people living in lagos should be blamed for what is going on because they are not organized and they do not complain.

It isn’t just in Lagos these things happen. The police exploit innocent citizens. PHCN workers exploit nigerians with over billed power subscriptions. In lagos, there isn’t a drop of pipe bourne water. Health care is only for those who can afford it. Public education is free in lagos and Imo, but only to the university level in Imo State. Cost of living is high and yet we have people in government who are there to solve the problem and not be the problem. PHCN ought to have privatized yet government spends huge funds to keep it running. Yet we see no results. Security is a none issue here. We are save by our own fate. Yet they say the police is your friend. Security is for the highest bidder in Nigeria. Our state governors steal state security votes worth N60 billion monthly and declare it for themselves and the federal government doesn’t do anything about it. Is it the National Assembly? Bunch of lunatics who pledge to themselves hazard allowance and sitting allowance yet they refuse to give any form of allowance to unemployed youths and aged citizens of this country. Don’t even mention state house’s of assembly please!!!

Even in sports, you find government involvement there. Abeg wetin dem dey find there sef?!!! I tire o!!! Nigerians I tire o!! We must not accept things they way the are done. We must demand our rights. We must demand that those in public offices must be responsible. Or else we all are IRRESPONSIBLE!!!

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For the past few days, I have been approached by so-called christians who have been inviting me to visit their church and see for myself which is the true church of Christ. Abeg, should I become a multi-church goer. When I came into this world, I was not branded with any church’s or religion’s name, but had to become a catholic because that was the church my parents went to. This was against my wishes. I wasn’t consulted but had no choice because my parents choose for me.

Now that I am a man, I have left the catholic church because they don’t meet my goals and ambitions in life and now have joined Daystar Christian Center, led by Pastor Sam Adeyemi. Oh don’t worry, this is not an advertising campaign for my church, they got to pay me for even mentioning their name. I am not a philanthropist.

What worries me is the lousy marketing campaign of these churches with the number of programs they have everyday. And they will keep on inviting you even when you are a member of a church. Even my church does it. Jesus Christ didn’t force people to come to him. When he spoke to him and they believed in him, he encouraged them. Those who didn’t bother to listen to him, he didn’t bother about them. Even when you are a christians, these church believers, who claim they believe in Christ, make you feel like a sinner! Because you aren’t a member of their church!

Another thing that pisses me off is the people who meet so called people who claim to have a spiritual gift and a dreamers or visionaries or dream or vision interpreters, so that these unfortunate low life people who do not have any ambitions, would now tell or reveal to them what their future has in stock for them. See this hypocrites! Jesus said that God knew how to take care of the birds of the sky and if we believed in Him, we need not worry about our future. Anybody who runs about seeking revelations about their future because they are experiencing tough times or difficulties is an enemy of Jesus Christ and if you claim you are a Christian, then you are no different from that wolf in sheep’s clothing/skin. You are a bloody hypocrite!!!!!

If someone needs to succeed in life, you need to surround yourself with people who would help you do so and people who have done so. How can you succeed when you surround yourself with people who can not be identified with no achievements? Do we know what true christianity is all about? Jesus gave his life so that we can be saved! That doesn’t mean that we need to die to! But dieing for someone else also means sacrificing one’s comfort for that person. Visit, to learn what it means to be a true christian.

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Brazil protests: Dilma Rousseff unveils reforms

Protesters in Brazil have been protesting the high costs of hosting and organizing FIFA Confederation’s Cup and next year’s FIFA World Cup and the 2016 Olympics. Transportation and telecommunication services were increased and the Brazilian government didn’t do anything about it. Even a former World Cup winner in the person of Brazil’s Romario, the start of the USA ’94 World Cup, who is now a parliamentarian, doesn’t support the world cup, and he speaks out about it calling the new stadiums white elephant projects, why would poor and jobless youths support it, especially when the new found wealth of the Brazilian economy doesn’t reach them.

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NSA leaks: US charges Edward Snowden with spying

The US justice department has filed criminal charges against a fugitive ex-intelligence analyst who leaked details of a secret surveillance operation.

The charges against ex-National Security Agency (NSA) analyst Edward Snowden include espionage and theft of government property.

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